10 Seconds
“It’s just a joke.”
After you make a few comments, one of your friends in the group chat takes a screenshot of the whole conversation, including your comments, and shares it with others.
The classmate being talked about eventually sees the screenshot and knows who was involved. Now, you start to feel worried and embarrassed because your name is linked to the hurtful comments.
You realize that what seemed like just a small joke has left you feeling uncomfortable and uncertain about how to make things right.
Respect is a key part of a healthy relationship.